A Grand Duke Falls in Love at First Sight


It’s Valentine’s Day! Let’s celebrate by eavesdropping on a grand duke’s first meeting with his future wife.


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Our victim, so to speak, is Grand Duke Konstantin Nikolayevich, the second son of Tsar Nicholas I. He experienced it the first time he met his future wife and wrote every thought and every emotion in his diary, and now I’m going to share quotes from those entries with you in this super-short post.

Konstantin wearing a military uniform with large golden shoulder boards and epaulets.
Portrait by Franz Krüger, public domain via Wikimedia Commons.

In September of 1846, Konstantin made a special trip to meet the girl his father thought he should marry, Alexandra of Saxe-Altenburg.

Drawing of Schloss Altenburg, showing a baroque palace settled on a hill among trees.
Schloss Altenburg in the 1880s by Ludwig Rohbock, public domain via Wikimedia Commons.

He saw her for the first time on the afternoon he arrived. In his diary, he wrote, “I didn’t know what was happening to me…I have never seen anything more perfect than her in my whole life. Everything – her mouth, her nose, her lips, her hands – was wonderfully beautiful! And her eyes shone like fire. Her voice is tender, wonderfully lovely. On top of that she is very lively and funny…My heart was pounding the whole time. No, without a doubt, I don’t want anyone else but her. She must be mine.”

“I have never seen anything more perfect than her in my whole life.”

Grand Duke Konstantin Nikolayevich
Alexandra in profile, with her head turned to face the painter, wearing an off-the-shoulder ball gown, a multi-strand pearl necklace, and a wreath of flowers in her hair.
Princess Alexandra of Saxe-Altenburg by Joseph Karl Stieler, public domain via Wikimedia Commons. Are you drooling over that sapphire?

Later that afternoon, when he had a brief chance to talk to her, he pushed her chair back and brushed her hand with his. He wrote, “A hot flame ran through me.”

That night, he confessed to his diary, “I don’t know what’s happening to me, but I’m a completely different person. I’m only moved by one thought, I only have one image in my mind: Always her, my angel, my star….Only a few hours, and already I’m head over heels in love because there’s an ineffable, incomprehensible magic around her.”

Konstantin waring a blue military uniform, fur cloak, and holding a ceremonial sword.
Konstantin by an unknown painter, public domain via Wikimedia Commons.

The next morning, he wrote, “I almost lost my breath when we entered the room and I saw her again.”

Young Alexandra in profile, wearing a demure blouse, black jacket, and red bow at her neck.
Young Alexandra at about the time Konstantin met her. Portrait by Joseph Karl Stieler, public domain via Wikimedia Commons.

But his visit was only meant to be a short one. The very next day, he had to leave. Of his departure, he wrote, “At the station, I said goodbye with a sad heart and kissed her hand. Until the train started moving, I looked out of the carriage to see her one last time…I involuntarily burst into tears because I love her so much, with all my heart, with all my soul, and I don’t want to share my life with anyone else.”

“…I love her so much, with all my heart, with all my soul, and I don’t want to share my life with anyone else.”

Grand Duke Konstantin Nikolayevich

He would return to her family’s home later that month, anxious for a second glimpse of the woman he now called his morning star.

Alexandra wearing a gorgeous off-the-shoulder turquoise and lace dress, with bows at the neckline and along the skirt.
Alexandra painted by Franz Xaver Winterhalter, public domain via Wikimedia Commons.

Thank you so much for reading this post. This is my Valentine’s Day tribute to you and a big thank-you for all the support readers like you have given me. I’m so happy to share my love of royal history with you.

The End

Source

Barkowz, Olga, Fjodor Fedorow, and Alexandr Krylow. “Peterhof ist ein traum…”: Deutsche Prinzessinen in Russland. Berlin: Edition Q, 2001. (Amazon affiliate link)

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Jenni Wiltz

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Hi, I’m Jenni Wiltz, an award-winning writer obsessed with little-known royal women. With three degrees, including a master’s in English, I’m using my love of research and storytelling to bring you the stories of fascinating royal women and their jewels. I have two decades of experience in marketing and writing, with awards for my short fiction, romantic suspense, and creative non-fiction.



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